Ask Annie: Enough is Enough

Question:

Hello Annie, I don’t have time to waste. I am a 20-year-old female that has got it going on. All the young guys want me, but I done got a taste of a different lifestyle with my boyfriend – he’s 12 years older than me. He left his wife to be with me. I know what you’re thinking, but they’re really no longer together and she moved out of the state. I did help him cheat on her, but the problem I’m having isn’t with her, it’s with all the other young cats he’s sniffin. I guess he’s feeling himself. I caught him talking to one of the girls on campus and every time I bring it up, it turns into an argument and my feelings end up getting hurt. He used to treat me real good, but now he treats me like sh*t. He doesn’t care about my feelings and we’re always breaking up to make up. I’ve never cheated on him, but now I see this woman in his phone that he’s known since high school he says. I told him to delete her number because it makes me uncomfortable, but he says I don’t trust him and goes about his business. Help me Annie, what should I do?

-Young & In Love

Answer:

Hey young’n, first things first, older men who date younger women, especially women like you who can’t legally drink are a special kind of immature. He’s playing high school games with you because he thinks that what you’re used to. Honestly, you’re better off building with someone who is two to five years older instead of 12 years. The man is a joke. The man is a boy. You make him feel young. Girl, you still got years to live baby. Do just that. DUMP HIS ASS. Let him talk to the girl from high school, she going to find out he ain’t ish either. You need to love yourself baby, you stepped into the realm of adulting dating and found you a divorced, child-support paying busta. Babes, we’re doing better all 2021. Don’t be jealous and don’t worry about the mistrust, protect the most important thing in your life – your heart.

I said what I said, Annie