Ask Annie: He Doesn’t Post Pics Of Us On Social Media

Hi Annie,

My boyfriend and I have been together for about seven years now. During COVID-19 we took a short break and then got back together. Well, since we’ve been back, things have been so different. He used to love to take me out and take pics of me and post them. Now, it’s like I don’t exist on his social media and worse now he goes out and has a good time and post pics with his other friends. I am jealous and upset that he would treat me like this after seven years of being together. What should I do?

– Post me please

Let me remind you, you are in a relationship with your boyfriend, not social media. Now, I realize that things have changed in your relationship, but focus on the problem and not on your boyfriend’s social media accounts. It’s possible that he explored some options during your breakup and he’s no longer secure in your relationship. He may feel that you’ve left before and you’ll leave again, and sad to say it, social media accounts are so permanent…people die and their social media accounts live on. He could be protecting himself by not posting at all. Another issue is that he stopped inviting you places… Honey, it’s possible he’s cheating, maybe not physically but emotionally. He seems like he’s no longer into you how he was before the breakup. Do you want to stick around for that, or do you want genuine love? If you want him, talk to him. Let him know your concerns and see how he addresses them, then you’ll know if it’s time to leave or if you should stay.

-Annie